My friend said something insane last week

So I'm on my phone last Tuesday and I get a message in the group chat from my friend, let's call him M, it's a video that says: "How life felt after getting raped by that one family member" and after that he said, it was my uncle. So obviously I'm fucking worried and I'm going crazy wondering if this happened recently or a long time ago, I was actually going to call the police because wtf? So the next day I visit him and we talk and stuff, and I bring up the video he sent and what he said, and what he responded with actually made me go red, he said: "Nah bro, it's a joke I was joking, and plus, if you do ever get raped why can't you just enjoy it?" Excuse me? What the fuck did u js say to me? I left within a minute and blocked him everywhere bc if ur being that insufferable and blind, don't ever fucking interact with me again, and to the ppl who think this is fake ima get screenshots rq