Im very confused

Hello! I am a 18 year old female who has been in the MBTI community for more than 2 years, still, I don’t know if i’m an INTJ or INFJ.

To explain I’ll begin from the start:

“Why do you think you’re either INTJ or INFJ?”
Well, I thought I could have been an ENTP, because I make scenarios of random things but at the same time I don’t see many possibilities and I tend to connect the dots without having to think, I also very much know what others will say before they say it, that’s the hallmark of introverted intuition, maybe my shadow Ne is very high and this makes me very creative.

Now, onto the real question.

The first time I did the test I got INTJ, and from there i started studying the functions, to be honest both types sound like me and its very hard to tell which one I am.

1. I’m very empathetic and tend to feel the physical pain of others on my own body.
2. I tend to love when people help each other and I tend to think people are already my best friends (no I am not an extrovert, i recharge by being alone, i just tend to think people already are my best friends).
3. I make sure everyone feels safe and included
4. I don’t know how to tell someone a harsh truth if that will make them sad.
5. I think about others in choices even if I end up choosing the logical option.
6. I am very polite and have a lot of social anxiety.

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1. I’m very analytical and logical, I see the pro and cons of a system.
2. I tend to judge people online and don’t feel empathy for most of them, there was a time where I watched a video of a girl she was making a gender reveal of her baby, when the color was green and not blue she started crying, and I got an ick, because I don’t really like people who put their babies/gender reveals online, it’s annoying for me.
3. I immediately find illogical holes into theories, religions etc, like one time I said this about the egg theory: “It doesn’t make sense, if it was real we would need to have many consciousnesses, because they happen at the same time, you’re just one consciousness, so how can you be multiple ones together?.” If you know what I mean, I also was watching a video about fatal familial insomnia and thought: “why can’t we replace the thalamus and put a new one? (I know we can’t in 2026, but just to say what my mind does when I watch videos like this)
4. I also tend to get annoyed easily with people, in fact the phrase “I am surrounded by idiots” works for me, like literally, I am surrounded by idiots sometimes.
5. I have many existential crisis about the multiverse etc, like one time I asked: “if there’s a multiverse, then there’s a universe where the multiverse doesn’t exist.”

I can’t think of more things to say, so yeah, that’s all, thanks for whoever will answer me :) if you want to know more just DM me!