42 f4m It’s me, Jessica!

I’m a fan of honesty, so here are my red flags before we waste anyone’s time.

I overthink a bit. If your tone shifts or your replies slow way down, I’ll notice. I’m not dramatic about it, but I do pay attention.

I like consistency. Disappearing for days and popping back up like nothing happened isn’t really my thing.

I communicate directly. I don’t love guessing games or reading between the lines. I ask questions, I answer them, and I appreciate the same in return. I can be pretty blunt, but don’t mistake my directness for rudeness.

I’m affectionate, sarcastic, and emotionally aware. That can feel like a lot if you’re not used to it, or surprisingly easy if you are.

I am married and staying that way.

I prefer a long-term connection and I know that can work in this space. I’ve done it successfully before, with mutual respect and clear boundaries.

Showing up with sincerity matters more to me than being impressive.

I’m ideally looking for someone in their 40s, located in the US or Canada. Practical, I know, but it helps.
Please be respectful of my age and location preference.