Advice for selling on my own site?

What's been your experience selling on your own website? Can someone recommend an adult friendly web host with built in payment processor?

What are some common problems you ran into selling content on your own site?

I've had so many hiccups lately using the popular video and subscription sites so I created a free website using an AI hosting tool. I won't say the name but it rhymes with Bacons AI). I see a few other creators using it but it's not "made" for adult content.

Payments are handled by linking either Stripe or PayPal, neither of which are tolerant of NSFW anything, but I've actually made a considerable amount of money selling digital goods on my site. No charge backs (yet) but I realize how precarious my current setup here is and am desperately looking to replace it with something more long term stable.

I sell videos, pic bundles, ebooks (I write erotica), and a few services.

TLDR: Recommend an adult-tolerant web host for long term growth and content sales