Hello
So a little background story I have always been curious and turned on by couple sex, group sex etc. now I brought this up to him over a year ago stating what would u think about swinging or even starting out like adding someone to our bedroom play. He told me no he was not comfortable with the idea I said okay I just want you know this is something I like but if your not comfortable I won’t bring it up again fast forward to last night While I’m playing with him he brings up he would like to look into it and maybe try once we are ready to do so. it’s hard to really find any help for newbies specially for both of us being new to the kinky life style and new to the idea of couple swapping and swinging. Now neither of us are fully ready to jump in bed with someone yet but we would definitely like any tips or advice that may help us on our research and journey a lot of what I’ve researched was why I thought was the basic get tested and do regular testing (which I do anyway cause I like to be pro active) but some other tips or blogs or something that helped you or your partner to understand the lifestyle
Posted Jun 27, 2026, 10:37 AM UTC