36 [M4F] #Loop - Sex is cool but have you dove even deeper? (IRL)

Hi ! We both are thinking sigh, here we go again - trying to find what we want in this messy, online world! Dont be discouraged. Ill lay it all out from my end now so you might want to put your reading glasses on! What im seeking (for now) is not a hookup/ONS but a similar mindset/wants (high libido, love deep convos, dishing sarcasm, exploring kink, sexually open/flirty etc) Youre tired of the “you up?” Texts & empty encounters. You want more. Me too so lets just chat , vibe, flirt and go from there?

Who i am: Single, solid 6/7 (im realistic, not delusional), Tall (6’0”), DDF, thick, BWC (pics/vids on profile for proof), bearded Italian/white male who will be able to toss ya around in the bedroom. I work in nuclear safety 🤓and travel all over IL for it so distance doesnt mean much to me (prefer city/nw/s burbs)

I pride myself on being a raw, respectful, blunt individual who is in tune with their emotions & is able to communicate in a descriptive manner. Firm believer that communication & effort needs to be prioritized. Team work makes the dream work!! Dom tendencies but very social, spontaneous and playful. If you cant dish sarcasm, banter and wittiness like we are playing ping pong - i dont want it!

Hobbies: reading, writing, art, cooking, watching sports/docs/thriller movies, lifting, holistic/wellness practices, stealing memes, random road trips, spontaneous acts, trying new coffee spots/restaurants.

Kinks (never limited/always expanding): im not a fan of titles/specifics but i identify with being a pleasure dom the most which leads us to >>> D/S, CNC, TPE. Oral enthusiast. Anal/ass play - none of these are “must haves”. The most important thing to me is fun, flexibility and an open mind. Honestly, ill be more intrigued by what YOU enjoy.. im all ears…

Also, please consider that this is less about kink (i just think sexual chemistry is very important) and more so about really wanting to find that connection that can translate to IRL. It would be great to come across someone who is actively trying and going after their wants. First dates shouldnt be scary!

Shoot me a DM if this intrigues you, are local and please provide some info about yourself when you reach out. Exchanging pics/verification is a must. Very open to meeting prior (coffee/dinner etc)