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kpay10

How do you draw the line between curiosity/asking questions and interrogation when talking to someone from an online dating app?

I notice myself asking questions a lot to the person I matched with. And they never ask any questions back. Every message I send them is a question and I don't want to feel like I'm interrogating them. Girls. Do you like it when your match asks you question?

For example I ask my match what video games do you play, and she'll say I play a lot of CoD and horror games. So I replied back saying so your into shooting games? She said yes but not anymore and I asked her why not, she said the series got worse. So I told her I agree with her and what games she plays now. She list several games I never heard of. And my next response finally wasn't a question. It was I feel so out of the loop because I never heard those games before. And then she unmatched me. I feel like if I don't ask questions, the conversation goes dead but if I keep asking questions, it will feel like a interrogation

Posted Jun 29, 2026, 11:27 PM UTC

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