looking for irondad spiderson fic

ok guys i read this fic probably around 2023, i have searched my entire history and couldn't find it so i now believe it to be deleted. now im checking to see if anyone remembers it!
it was a pretty long fic, probably 20+ chapters. it started with peter having panic attacks and tony helping him, which eventually brought them closer. a few chapters in, may dies and pete i think becomes homeless for a bit? and then starts staying with tony at the tower. eventually, tony and pepper adopt him.
some specific scenes i remember:
tony takes pete suit shopping for some nice dinner they go out to
peter meets rhodey who becomes an uncle for pete, and rhodey is shocked that tony basically had a kid for months (?) and didnt tell him
tony and peter go ice skating i think? and tony wears a disguise of a hat and sunglasses
harley isnt in it, but im pretty sure ned and mj are
the fic name wasnt super long, only 1-2 words i think

i know this is such a longshot but let me know if u remember the fic/author name or if you know where to find it!