32M || Looking for a genuine long term friend to play games with and chat often

Hey, my friends all call me Theo. (Short for my handle Theorchero)

I'm looking for a genuine friend. Preferably nerdy, chill, and a big bonus if you're into tech and a stoner. I'd prefer early 20s at the earliest. Big plus if you're super chill.

I play a lot of different games, but my latest obsession has been dead by daylight. League of legends, War Thunder, Phasmophobia, Fallout 76, Arena Breakout: Infinite, Dark and Darker, and Stalker Gamma have all been past ones as well. I often cycle games I play, but my interest in games a lot of the time is based on whether friends play besides my own enjoyment, so I'm pretty flexible.

I don't have many friends, and the ones I do have are mostly unavailable a lot of the time. Please don't be a jerk, I get raging (I'm not perfect and I definitely get tilted) but please don't be an asshole to our teammates in games or to anyone else for that matter. I'm too old to be dealing with that shit, yaknow?

I am a massive nerd, I am a writer, and I run D&D games for a living. (This is not an advertisement.) I am working on multiple books, but my latest one is young adult horror. I've also written 600+ pages for my D&D homebrew world (basically setting at this point.) I also study tech and cybersecurity, and have done so since I was a kid. Big plus if that sounds like you too!

I am disabled, and I have a lot of free time. I have a very loving partner and I spend a lot of time with her, but she's very supportive of me hanging out with my friends and gaming. She's down to hang out with us, and we're especially interested in a 4th for dead by daylight survivor.

Man or woman (or any other identity) doesn't really matter to me :)