DAE relate?

Dont know if it’s just me, but when I’m worried about someone close to me and their inability to make good, safe, smart decisions it gets to a point where I literally have to disengage with my emotions and just literally not care what happens with them. It’s the only way I can cope with my inability to help, especially when they are an easily angered, stubborn person who will take any advice as a personal jab at their intelligence. Its such a terrible situation to be in