[M4A] My girlfriend makes slutty posts online and it feels confusing

Hi, I'm Chris. I’m 20 and and my girlfriend is too. We’ve been together about five months. She’s friendly, and pretty, and outgoing, and confident, and I like her a lot. She makes posts on social media that show off a lot of her body though.

I know I don’t own her or anything, and it’s not like she’s naked, but her selfies show off a lot of her body and feel sexual. Whenever I see them, I guess it makes me feel weak because I know other guys can see so much of her whenever they want .

I’ve never been really assertive in general or sexually. When I get turned on, my mind always goes to things that make me feel weak or embarrassed. I guess it’s confusing because I get reminded of guys looking at her all the time, even when I’m turned on. It feels embarrassing, especially it appears in my head when I’m around my friends, but it just happens and I can’t stop it. I don’t know what to do.

I think I need to talk about this situation and understand what to do. If you message me I’ll do my best to make you happy. Thanks