37 [M4F] #US/NYC - Still seeking my energetic younger little for a dynamic we can grow together into (that leads to in person)!

hi! I'm here because I'm still searching for someone who has the time and desire to want to explore a ddlg/cgl dynamic with someone where we see each other as our preferences in a person. I've been fortunate enough in my searching to receive responses and I always love hearing from someone, but its been an overwhelming struggle to get to know someone because it seems like making time to actually get to know each other seems like by far the hardest part out of all of this, and I'm not honestly sure why. I'm a guy that has a ton of energy to give, loves to have conversation and having someone reasonably available or will try together to find time to talk is extremely important to me, so please keep this in mind. 1 conversation that lasts 10 minutes a week doesn't count. I want to be influential to your life, not a side piece, and that takes time to build together.

With that being said because I know this matters, I'd love to also establish attraction fairly quickly (in a desire to be transparent), and I'd be more than willing to respond in kind! I understand a cgl dynamic tends to need physical attraction usually, so I would love to establish these things, then message a bit between each other before eventually moving elsewhere so we can voice/video chat together with!

If you're still here, let me share a bit about myself!

I am a 6'1, hispanic guy and I consider myself to be a soft dom! While I am someone that loves taking the lead and am comfortable in my knowledge to handle the needs of two people (you and I that is!), I am also someone that happily communicates often what I’d like to do and see if you’re okay with it (as I don’t want to surprise anyone and I believe a dynamic requires good communication anyways) for your comfort. You’ll also learn that I love talking and I am someone that would love to have video and voice calls with someone (this is important to me, especially if there’s an initial distance, as I need to see something visually to feel confident about a potential relationship). I understand this may detract people, but my strongest love language is physical touch and video/voice calls before eventually having it move IRL is very helpful to me with this. Being talkative and somewhat available at least is a huge plus with me, but I am happy with someone shy as well.

I am into (sfw):

• Coloring and little activities such as tea parties, getting to know stuffies, reading bedtime stories and if you’re in school, I would love to do homework/study for your schoolwork together. I love learning about your life and being a central part of it where I can help you grow positively means everything to me.
• Video games (I don’t play many currently, but I’d love to find something new to play with together (or if you’ve played it before and its new to me)
• And a lot more (both in the context of cgl and vanilla things, come find out!)

I am into (kink wise):

• Light degradation and humiliation (both ways, certainly a few things that get me going when it’s said to me as well as I’m very comfortable in my own skin, happy to elaborate if we get there!
• Wordplay (especially with ageplay being an incredibly strong kink of mine), there is something exciting for me with visualizing an image when it comes to being intimate and amplifying it as much as possible. This includes as I'd like to add here that yes, I have a preference to someone who enjoys nsfw in her little space. Please read this before reaching out if this is important to you!
• TPE and d/s dynamics in general as part of every day life in the relationship. I believe that a dynamic shouldn’t have an on/off button, and that it should be an ongoing continuous thing, akin to daily routine and I want someone who wants to enjoy that as well with me.
• Lots more!

And lastly, I am looking for (if not mentioned before):

• A long term relationship first and foremost with someone in person. While I am open to talking to someone not from NYC, I am looking for someone open to relocation. I have the ability to provide a lovely place to live in long term and I’d like to share that with someone.
• A biological family. I cannot stress this enough to those who are reaching out. Please know that I absolutely want kids*. It would mean the world to me to be a father, so I’d love to be able to have someone I can see myself with long term enough to have a family together one day.
• Someone younger than me (this is important to me). I have nothing against anyone older, but with most of my past relationships having me be the younger, I’d like to experience the other side for myself. I am also into age gaps, so don't hesitate to reach out as long as you are younger.

If you think we’d click, I’d love to hear from you! Share a bit about yourself (or what you liked about anything I wrote or have written before) and if possible, be open to sharing a picture early as I'd like to establish attraction, and I’d love to go from there! Hoping to hear from someone soon!