38 [M4F] #Downey - where are the free use submissives into extra kinky play?

As my title says. 38 Daddy type here, 6feet, 210lbs, brown hair and eyes and beard, and a well endowed girthy member. 20+ tattoos. Just an overall down to earth respectful goofy dude in public who can rock your world behind closed doors. Really would ideally want a friend with benefits scenario. Someone who wouldnt mind coming over a few times a week. We can absolutely watch movies and cuddle and put emphasis on the friends aspect for sure, but I absolutely am going to want to use and abuse your holes at random moments and want that to be the norm too. My kinks can go pretty far in some regards and wont list them here in case I set off some secret alarm bells in the post lol but absolutely feel free to hit me up and ask. Lets just say rough and a little extra body fluids never hurt anyone ;)