“Favourite Position” Feels Like a Teen Concept, Not an Adult One

Every time someone asks “what’s your favourite position?” I realize how differently men and women think about this topic.

A lot of men ask it like it’s some permanent personality trait. Like bro, favourite colour thodi hai.

Honestly, I think the whole favourite position concept sounds more like teenage thinking than adult thinking. Adults usually care more about comfort, chemistry, mood, energy, connection, timing… not some fixed Olympic ranking list.

Because real life mein compatibility works both ways.

Suppose a guy absolutely loves Position A and hates Position B. Aur girl exactly opposite nikli.

Toh kya hoga?Will they walk out of the room like, Sorry guys, mismatch detected. Nahi na.

People adjust.
People communicate.
People figure out what works for both.

Sometimes something feels amazing with one person and awkward with another. Sometimes your mood changes everything. Sometimes comfort matters more than fantasy.

And honestly, the older I get, the more I feel attraction is less about “performing favourites” and more about feeling relaxed enough to enjoy the moment.

Most mature people are not sitting there with a scoreboard in their head.

At least I hope not.