What is a way change

M(30). What is the best way to change myself for any woman? How far should I change? What's the best method for manipulating them into thinking you're their type? What are women, on average attracted to? And what's a process for getting out of the friend zone, or for preventing being put into it? How do you alter your emotions and fear? Is it worth getting surgery to help with changing myself? How do you bite down on pride, morals, and ideals/beliefs to get what you want? How to create the perfect illusion or mask?

I'm trying to change everything about myself so I'm im longer me, so that I can fit whoever's image perfectly. Clearly, women don't like themselves or me or themselves, so I need to match their imagery, idea, everything. So I need help learning how to make a mask.