pressured to travel back to pakistan
I honestly dont have any interest in traveling atleast for now especially back to pakistan, they are saying for now it will be a 2 weeks trip but i feel like it will turn into one month trip and they are trying to trap me, they also said i could even leave pakistan earlier alone but i feel like at the time, he will pressure to come back with my mother.
My father already talks about sending me back to pakistan even though i dont want to go, i do have a job here but unfortunately i have 1 and a half month summer break coming so they want me to go back to pakistan as they are like "what will you do at home?", initially i dont have any objections with going to pakistan this summer especially since its been nearly 3 years but i feel like if i were to agree to go now, my father will want me to visit pakistan every break from now on and will use that "what will you do at home" excuse every break which i dont want it to happen especially since i already hear him talking about wanting to send me back to pakistan, he is like go help your mom set up house over there and i feel like he is going to want me to do that every break from now on as well like just because you are retiring, does not mean im retiring as well, just because you have interest of going back to pakistan does not mean everyone does, atleast for now i already have no interest of settling there in the first place as im trying to get settle here as i do already have a job here as well, i just want to leave pakistan option for worst case scenarios like for instance if we lost job or got deported. If i dont agree to go now, i will have to deal with emotional manipulation from my parents, they will remain mad over this, they would be like you are always at home or something like that.
Posted Jun 30, 2026, 2:41 AM UTC