A question for the Strippers of Reddit!

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Hi! I'm just asking a random question here because I don't want to come off as sensitive/ignorant. 

I've never been to a strip club, so I don't know any etiquette, and I don't really plan on going for any services. I mainly just want to treat the women at a local place not too far from me! I understand it's their job and theyre working and got bills to pay, so I don't want to waste anyone's time, but I want to help them out and help them smile! :)) 

What are the rules on gift baggies/security? Can I get them any sort of goodies, or is that a security issue and is generally never accepted? Things purchased, not made from home ^(^) Also, is it considered okay to just spend money and not get a dance? (Im a straight, married woman and wouldn't be interested haha) just have some normal conversation? 

Basically I just want to give them something to smile about as I'm sure the job can be tiring/tough while also making sure I'm still kind, courteous, and not wasting anyone's time    

Some additional context that might better help: location is in a very small rural town, not in a big city or anything! 

Thanks for help answering my questions!! 

Posted Jun 30, 2026, 2:41 AM UTC

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