Red Dead Online server issue

My Gf and I keep having this issue with rdr 2’s online kicking us offline for no reason. We have to main accounts that we played on about 3 months ago and had no issues with the game kicking us out. She claimed it kicked her out every now and then but that was it, I never had an issue. We both started 2 new accounts on rdr 2 online because we were bored and wanted to start over and lately it’s been at least once every hour it will kick us out of the server and for her, she will struggle for 20 mins trying to get into a server so im wondering whats going on with that? Any guess? Any advice?