39 [M4F] #Milwaukee Its not for everyone, but...

For the most part I'm happily married. She's a good wife and good mother. We've built a life that I'm happy with.

But the sex life is pretty much dead. To be honest, it wasn't exactly setting the bedroom on fire even in the beginning, but everything else was good so it felt shallow to end the relationship just because sex was below average and infrequent.

I'm looking for someone in a similar situation. You're happy, but your physical needs aren't being met. What it boils down to is I'm looking for someone who is just looking to use each other's bodies, and play together online when we're able to sneak off into another room or when our spouses go to bed.

I've had one physical affair in the past, and it was great, but came to an end due to some shoddy OPSEC on her end.

I'd like to find someone I click with conversationally, but lets be perfectly honest, physical attraction is probably the most important criteria in this scenario. We're both taking a big risk, and no one really wants to risk it all for someone they arent really into.

I'm a handsome guy, muscular, dark hair, blue eyes, sarcastic and goofy, a former college athlete, a couple degrees, clean, and have my shit together.

I've got a soft spot for pretty brown eyes, brunettes, and I'm very much a breast man, although those arent exclusive, but definitely my type.

Sexual quality is more important than quantity to me at this point, so if you're interested, I hope youre sexually confidant.

Lets chat and see where it goes.

Wisconsin/Illinois area