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Hello, I 15(F) and my friend 15(F) met this past year. Let's call her Anna. As a background, we are in highschool. This story happened a while back and only had the courage to post it now. Her now bf, I have known for 2 years longer than she has as me and my Anna came from different schools. Anna and I became really close really fast. Her bf was the guy that nobody in the grade liked nor was friends with. He would randomly burst out in the middle of class, always be on his computer never paying attention to anyone, and would make inappropriate remarks to everyone. Before they got together, he had apparently went up to a senior and said she had really nice boobs. Anna knew about all of this and still decided to date him. Our friend group that me and Anna are in were sick of her dating guy like that. According to another friend of ours, he went up to her and said her body looked like an anime characters. He asked Anna's friends while Anna wasnt there, WHILE THEY WERE DATING, to dance with him during HOCO. He's so touchy to not only Anna, but sits uncomfortably close to me and her friends. I know him already and so I know how to deal with him, but others don't. Whenever someone is having a conversation with someone else, he barges in and pretends like everything is about him. He was not a good guy and she didn't see that.

When our muttual close friend, let's call her, Cindy, was dating aguy that she couldn't bring herself to break up with, me and Anna made a pros and cons list for her to see why they should break up. Me and Cindy, also made a pros and cons chart for Anna. Yes he did learn a new language (few words) for her, but the things he has said could not be overlooked by a small kindness. A little while later, I was come up to by a 3rd person who doesn't even know any of the context and told that I was the AH for making a pros and cons list. This 3rd person doesn't know anything about the bf nor does she know the things he has done. She yelled at me and made me feel horrible. I ended up apologizing to Anna about the list and had her give me the cold shoulder for a while.

AITAH?