39 [M4F] #Midwest #USA - No games, just blunt honesty
I have probably started & stopped this post at least a dozen times over the past day or so because every version felt forced or sanitized in some way. I am just going to wing it and see where I end up.
I am a 39 year old married dad in the Midwest (IL to be more specific) looking for those lost feelings of excitement, support, yearning, and care (or hopefully more). I am by no means a perfect person, but I am on my own journey of self improvement. What does that mean? Well for starters I would describe myself as husky, yet I am tall, a former collegiate athlete that enjoy manual labor as a way to relax from my 9-5 day job. I love to read, meet new people, try new things, and I am very curious about the world and people overall. My musical interests are as varied as my hobbies as well.
I am looking for someone that is just as interested in learning about me as I am about them. I want to learn what makes you tick, smile, or makes you sad. I want to support you through your wins and your losses and I would like the same. I want to find someone that is curious and passionate about the things they enjoy or want to enjoy in their life.
Hopefully this has piqued your interest or resonated in some way and if so, I look forward to hearing from you. I can promise that I am an open book and you will get my blunt and honest take on whatever you ask me. There are no emotional games to be played, and I am far too tired to put up with those as well. Come as a you are and we can see where it goes.
Posted Jun 30, 2026, 2:47 AM UTC