Unpopular opinion: A lot of women are incels too🤷🏽‍♀️

Speaking as a woman interested in men.

The amount of women I come across that are single, not because they actually desire to be single but do to the quality of suitors … predominantly male suitors that are meeting their bar for potential partnership..

I feel I have also entered this bucket.

The more I accomplish and spend time with myself in self love mixed with the constant stories of women’s situations in heterosexual relationships - my bar goes up and desire for partnership goes down.

But my desire does not disappear …. There is always that itch if you know what I mean😪, but the risks far outweigh the reward.