34 [M4F] Toronto – Looking for a serious, life-time connection who is also a work in progress.

I’ve gone on a few dates recently from reddit, and while they were great people, it just wasn't the right match. Those experiences made me realize how important it is to be completely transparent about my values and preferences right from the start so no one’s time is wasted.

To be completely upfront about what I'm looking for: I am dating with very clear intentions. My ultimate goal is a serious relationship that leads to marriage and building a life together. I am looking for a true partnership where responsibilities are shared, and I’m looking for someone who doesn't subscribe to modern feminism.

I’m a big believer that the best connections happen when two people are already whole and want to build something meaningful together. For me, a great relationship is a journey where we support each other’s personal evolution, ground each other, and grow side-by-side.

A bit about me: I’m a big fan of mountain trekking, kayaking, and anything that gets me outside into nature. I’ve lived and worked internationally in places like South Korea and the UK, which definitely shaped my perspective on the world. I value radical honesty, presence, and deep, unfiltered conversations over superficial small talkany day.

Preferences & Attraction: Physical chemistry is essential for a lasting connection, and to respect everyone's time, I want to be open about my personal preferences. Visually and romantically, I am not attracted to Black or East Asian women.

If you are also at a place where you're looking for something real, value self-development, and want to build a foundation on shared values rather than unrealistic expectations, I’d love to chat.

To kick things off: What’s a skill or a habit you’ve been actively working on lately?