is it okay that I (F24) don’t love how my gf (F24) takes care of her dogs?

havent been dating long (1 month officially) but o really like her. we have lots of fun together and share a lot of the same interests.

she has 2 dogs and loves them so much i don’t want anyone to doubt that… but they do their ‘business’ on her apartment balcony and sometimes if the door is closed: the floor. i’m not the type to get easily grossed out, but piss and shit is where i gotta draw a line. i think the dogs need to be taken outside for this, but i don’t want to be rude and tell her how to take care of her pets. i’ve mentioned i get grossed out by it and she’s apologetic and picks up after them etc. but the piss smell lingers man… i just don’t know if i should say more or just keep subtly hinting or just mind my business cause she’s an adult and i like her and don’t wanna come across as judgmental or anything

thoughts are appreciated but please be kind thank uuuu

Posted Jun 30, 2026, 2:53 AM UTC

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