Had a small argument with my husband.
We went to one shop for Maggie we discussed having Maggie as dinner and Maggie will not be enough for both of us. So I took 2 packets Usually we take one packet. When I took 2 packets he reacted like why are you taking two packets. I said nothing he realised we discussed it earlier. When we came out of the shop I asked him why you reacted so quickly. It hurted me a little. He said what he was supposed to do when suddenly this happened.
I told him first you just don't defend yourself if you hurt someone in any manner. You should apologise and then tell your point. He thought I was getting angry. I was not angry I calmly told him he shouldn't react so quickly to anything. He was like what should I do when I suddenly saw something and thought I did not expect it.Why are you getting angry. I told him I am not angry.
My intention was to never make him feel bad. I told him I said what hurt me as a partner now it is up to you to do whatever you want to do. If you want to change ,change this habit or stay like this it's totally up to you .
Went to sleep.He said he wanted to discuss something. I told him I am not in the mood to talk to you let's talk tomorrow. He was saying sorry and everything. So I talked with him. After some time he said even if you get angry and with one minute gap or I get angry we shouldn't fight.
I asked him what did you just say. Even if you get angry and why you took such a long pause to say you also get angry . Are you trying to raigebate me. You deserve one month of tana as a punishment. So I told him even if you get angry ...............every single day .
Posted Jun 30, 2026, 2:54 AM UTC · locked