"Please Accept Me" - The Issue with Multi-racial/Biracial self-hating people

We all know in monoracial communities, usually the mixed-race people will be the first one's to be questioned and targeted for racism. In Black Communities, white, and other communities as well. I watched this video of a Mullata (Black/White) female going off on other Mixed-race people. And how Black American's (Dark skin people) go through colorism and racism more. And here I'm thinking, "But you get it worse". Because being pressed by both sides is already difficult enough. And feeling as if you don't have no group of people to fit in with. And I mainly see this with women, because they feel the need to kiss up to monoracial people to be accepted. VS, the majority of men who just accept it and move on with their lives. But why is that?

Stockholm Syndrome - Standing up for your oppressor

Let us use that Mullata as an example. We know how bad it is for mixed race individuals with a black mixture. Or even normal Light-skin people. It is Dark skin supremacy to Light-skin and mixed light-skin individuals. And rarely the other way around, because Dark skin folks make up the majority of their community. We see how these folks are treated worser than let's say, a monoracial dark skin black. And the racists words they say to these individuals daily, which is where the "Minstrel" phase comes in.

The Minstrel Mixed "Savior" - Hiding pain behind a savior complex

We see this from so many mixed-race people. Let us use Obama as an example. The same people (black folks), who were bad-mouthing him on his heritage. We're on his side when he won the election. And Trevor Noah, who was bullied by darker skin people in South Africa. Now, defends them without question and dismisses anything that has to do with the black and African communities flaws. Even Collin Kaepernick who dissed his white family, yet praised his black side, even though they were the ones who abandoned him. And females make up a majority of this, because females are the ones who are more afraid to stand up for themselves. And seek protection from whoever can hide their insecurities the most. "Light-skin privilege" does not actually exist, but Self-hate and envy people do. Not every white person has privilege, as hard as that is to believe. It is fine to defend part of your heritage, but at the same time do not let their flaws go unchecked.

Are Mixed Race People Actually Afraid to Connect IRL?

Online there are many platforms that rebel against the supremacy we receive from monoracial people. Exotical's, Mullato, Wasian's, Light-skin content creators who talk about the massive hate they receive on a daily basis. And these issues can no longer be swept under the rug, because it is plain sight. And it is causing a lot of stress and harm to a lot of those individuals. And I do not want to see this happening to the future generation. Embrace your heritage, and at the same time love yourself and who you are. And never harm no one that looks like you, or anyone that is different from you. We are all human, remember that.

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