(18+) Need recommendations for self-pleasing toys.

Hey guys, feel free to direct me to the correct subreddit if this is the wrong one.

I need some help with finding a realistic-looking toy that I can use for penetrative sex with my boyfriend (he’s ftm as well, no plans for bottom surgery, but I plan to get bottom surgery in the future). I don’t want something inside me for personal reasons, just something that will rub against my tdick so we both get the pleasure we want.

I’ve looked at AXOLOM and Trans Tool Shed, I like what I see but the reviews (or lack thereof in the case of Trans Tool Shed) make me hesitate. Any recommendations from anyone who’s purchased from those two or someone else, please leave in the comments.

I apologize again if this is TMI or if this is the wrong sub, again please feel free to direct me to the right place, I’m simply unsure of where to ask this question.

Thanks all.