Searching for a second bf - partnered for 8yrs

33 and uk based. Been with my partner a long time and things are good (the sex could be more frequent) so I can’t complain. But I miss the excitement and the passion. I’d love an online bf that could become a second real bf in secret with meets etc
I am vers and want to find the same (or top). Ideally my age or older. Would like to have a second bf to explore kink with but also do the nice things
Lmk if you want the same