32M NYC/USA looking for longterm connections and local NJ/NYC buds

32M 5'9 170 Asian working as a software engineer. I am ambititious and hardworking, yet easygoing and looking for new experiences and people to grow with.

Looking to meet new friends who are actually down to hang in real life instead of just endless texting or Snapchat threads that go nowhere.

I’m into hiking, biking, pickleball, spikeball, gardening, cooking, knitting, travel, and the usual mix of TV and movies when I’m relaxing. I’m down for active weekends, food runs, coffee hangs, or trying something random and new.

Prefer IRL hangs over long online back and forth. Way more into actually meeting and building real connections.

also down to connect virtually across the US. Chicago, SF, Dallas/Houston and Seattle. I could see myself moving to for work and life.

I cant host at the moment but happy to travel within manhattan, queens, bk and jersey city for local buds. I'm hairy average build and bottom if it matters.