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43 [M4F] #Peninsula - Looking for love M4F M4T

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Looking for someone special. My experience in finding a special someone married for a special friendship, has been hit or miss, but...I know you're out there!

Dare I say I'm looking for someone normal. Maybe even boring, like morning coffee. Two kindred souls to come together and become better than we could individually. Someone who makes the world brighter. Someone who can understand each other deeply more than our spouses can. Someone empathetic, and mentally mature. I'm in a loveless marriage. We're co-parents, basically. Most people are quite judgey, so I'm especially interested in someone understanding, and empathetic. Being a demisexual, I'm really not superficial. Most of all I'm attracted to your feminine energy and your kind heart.

I'm just a normal asian guy. Fit, clean shaven, has all his hair. I'm a good guy, stuck in a loveless marriage with an unappreciative spouse. I enjoy exercise, hiking, and a foodie. I'm educated and enjoy intellectual conversations, so let's talk about how we can make the world a better and more just place. I don't have vices, other than hopefully you. I guess it goes without saying that I'm looking for long term. Ultimately, looking to build a safe space with you where we can escape from the daily grind and be ourselves. Wouldn't that be nice?

Thanks for reading. Hope you're interested!

Posted Jul 3, 2026, 6:18 PM UTC

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