Findom ISNT just about money

So I decided recently to start participating in this kink some more and it’s just so ridiculous how many people who do not understand this kink pretend to be able to have a moral standing on it and be able to accurately judge it.

I am not “exploiting” subs, I stay well within discussed limits. Expecting an initial send isn’t exploitative, it’s a term and condition. I am not holding a gun to a subs head and expecting them to send.

I can and do have interactions with subs outside of sending.

I get it, just roll your eyes and ignore it, but I guess that’s just a flaw for me. it’s fucking ridiculous how skewed the view of this community is mainly to loud obnoxious girls from insta and tik tok.