Update to the Update: Sexually frustrated

Well, this is boring even to me now but I was looking for advice in two areas.

Basically tried to speak with husband about my issues and yeah it was a fight. I think it’s worse than I thought that not only is it an issue of me not feeling satisfied but him not being interested. He said he loves and cares about me and enjoys our time but while he didn’t say he didn’t care about me not being happy he really expressed frustration that it shouldn’t be this complicated or hard. Everything else is good about our marriage. I think I should just hang up the towel and really I would have no problem with that if I didn’t feel this damn empty throbbing ache down there. So really, has any one managed to just turn that off? I was thinking about trying meditating or something?

Also when I called my doctor to ask about hormone testing they were dismissive and said no because of my age and health that it’s not medically necessary (30s female) so any advice on how I get my hormones tested as yall suggested?

TLDR: read my two other posts and why am I still so horny