39 [M4F] Educated, chilled out, well travelled Irish guy Dublin looking for a fun person to enjoy the spark, make our hearts rush...

Hi and thanks for reading...

I'm a 39 year old guy from Dublin (but work abroad a lot in places like London) and have been in a long term relationship for more than 12 years. I don't want to delve too much into that side of things we can always talk about those things later if your happy to - equally I'm happy not to know and to keep an air of mystery. Basically the person is amazing but the sex has disappeared. We've gone from swinging kinksters to sex barely every few months. All I will say is that it feels much more like we are best mates living together than we do a married couple.

I've been on the scene for a number of years and enjoy meeting interesting and adventurous people. I'm lucky enough to be well traveled, educated and successful but don't take life too seriously. I've had a number of play partners over the years and it's always been a lot of fun. I take privacy, discretion etc of myself and those play partners very seriously.

I'm the kinkiest person alive and very open minded, have also done quite a lot (bi, mmf, dp, fetish, leather, latex, crossdress, strapons, s&m, cuckolding, dom/sub/switch, clubs. I take an approach to life that everything should be tried at some stage - and tried more than once to ensure I got the right opinion!

I also am qualified in tantric massage and love to give them to women and couples. In terms of meets, I can be switch though have had a lot of experience with giving women their first full submissive experience. I have a number of fun scenarios that I conduct with new subs to help women explore the kink in a safe, fun but deeply erotic way. If that is of interest, give me a shout. I've helped a dozen or so women bring this kink into their life and I love the feeling of helping unlock so many inner desires for a woman. I'm also switch so enjoy the sub side as well for the right female Dom - feel free to break out the strapon!

Really I'm searching for someone to make me feel alive again. I want to feel excited to hear from someone and vice versa. The saucy messaging and planning the next adventure. The anticipation of the next meet. The sharing of deep inner erotic desires. The clandestine meeting at a hotel. The throbbing of desire over a cocktail before heading to the lift. The first moment when my hand runs down your back on the way up. The tear your clothes off passion of entering the room. The joy of spending hours licking your clit as I circle your gspot, edging you and holding you there until you beg to be allowed cum...you begging and then me finally relenting and pushing you over the edge, then keeping going as you soak my face and push into multiples...until you beg for a break...the aftercare, the joy of curling up and doing it all again...

I'm not looking to change my current situation right now and nor am I looking to change yours. Ideally I would like to chat to people in Dublin or London.

I will look forward to hearing from anyone that fancies a chat and see what happens.