I (F/24) feel so lonely in this LDR with my (M/26) boyfriend who doesn’t give me time.
We recently became long distance due to work related.
Ever since he met his new friends, he has been going out smoking chilling drinking till 7 AM. And barely talks to me.
He used to only talk to me 5 mins when he reached home. After having a conversation he started giving more time.
I made him understand that in a long distance, relationship time and effort matters a lot to maintain the relationship.
But he argues telling me he's not leaving me in the house and going with his friends because I'm not physically there with him right now. And he's just escaping the reality and stress by hanging with his friends !!!!!
But at this point, I'm really questioning where I stand in his life? That he can't FaceTime me and talk to me for 30 minutes and spend some quality time.? honestly I'm having trust issues at this point.
He sends me snaps and I have his location too. But something in my gut failing is telling me this is not normal.
in the country ana nings woura ve amerem, vutt can't get myself to believe him.
Being sarcastic, I asked him if he was gay because he prefers being wasted with his friends rather than talking to me. Even on his days off, he runs to his friends.
I feel very lonely and not loved the way i want.
Honestly im thinking of ending this relationship.
Am i being dramatic?
Posted Jul 4, 2026, 6:24 PM UTC