Heading out to my family of soviet jewish immigrant MAGA Voters July 4th BBQ in a few hours and need some ammo

We live in NYC and my family vehemently hates democrats even before Mamdani and Oct 7th and are 3 time Trump voters. I’m going to be the only liberal there as always and they always lump me in with the Jew hating tankies even though I constantly say I didn’t vote for them (I didn’t). Usually I handle myself well but I need some better tactics to make these family events more enjoyable.