28 [M4F] | Bengaluru | Looking to build something real
Hi! I'm 28, originally from Kolkata and currently working as a software engineer in Bengaluru.
The last few years have been a bit of an adventure living in different cities, moving to the US for my master's, and eventually finding my way back to India. Constantly starting over has been exciting, but it also made me realize how much I value having someone to share life with, not just the big milestones but the ordinary days as well.
Outside work, I enjoy reading, photography, visiting museums, making tea, experimenting with chicken recipes, sketching, and occasionally disappearing down rabbit holes about history and geopolitics. I'm generally more comfortable with quiet cafés and long conversations than loud parties.
I'm looking for someone around 24–30 who's kind, emotionally mature, curious about the world, and interested in building a long-term relationship. I'm not looking for hookups or situationships.
I don't expect instant chemistry, but I do appreciate genuine conversations. If we get along, I'd much rather meet for coffee, wander through a bookstore or museum, or explore a new part of the city than spend weeks texting.
Posted Jul 4, 2026, 6:29 PM UTC