I got stood up by a guy that I’ve known for a month
Hey y’all, so to explain I met this guy maybe 5-6 weeks ago and for about 4 weeks we’ve been texting pretty consistently and linking up (getting busy) at his about twice a week. This is not a guy I want to have a serious relationship with, since he has a kid and we don’t have crazy chemistry. The thought to be in a relationship has crossed my mind but I made my resolve to not since he has a kid. I haven’t outwardly expressed that and neither has he in terms of “what he’s looking for”. But looks wise he’s fine as hell and my dream type ngl. But we had planned a “date” just to hang out outside of his place.
We had planned to go bowling today at 7, he texted me this morning at 6 AM. I didn’t have my phone on me til after I left work so I texted him back at 1 PM about where to go. It’s now 8:30 and he hasn’t said anything at all.
Now I know the tone of our relationship is messing around which yes! It is and I’m aware of that but we had both agreed to go out. If he never intended on going out or would rather have kept our meetings in the bedroom I’m not opposed to that.
Anyway it hurt my feelings should I crash out on him at all or just keep it pushing?
Oh also we work at the same place (I know 🙄) but different shifts, and live in the same complex… despite that we don’t cross paths on the day to day.
And he has been like singing my praises after we link cuz he really enjoys it, I’m lowkey confused at the switch up. It’s gotta be another woman 😭
Posted Jul 4, 2026, 6:31 PM UTC