Is this a high Fe thing or just my parents being well…weird as fuck

As we know I’m an ISFP and autistic + ADHD on top of that so I am very protective of my personal space. But my parents (who are ISFJ and ESFJ, high Fe users) don’t respect my boundaries when I have my headphones in- it just reeks of such entitlement, lack of manners and lack of basic respect to me. They want 24/7 access to me, and will try to get into my space, even if I have a neon red Do Not Disturb sign plastered on my face. I was thinking that a closed door and headphones indicated that someone is unavailable, but to my family boundaries are optional, negotiable, or simply don’t exist.
Like, forgive me for assuming that headphones = I’m in the zone, do not disturb

Why do Fe users not understand that I don’t want to talk and interact 24/7? They don’t even acknowledge the fact that I am neurodivergent and certain things that they don’t think twice about cause me straight up agony. For a type that is supposed to be “accommodating” or whatever idk my family surely override every one of my needs when it inconveniences them or doesn’t benefit them (things like my privacy and personal space and sensory issues)