Sex after divorce
After my divorce, my 2nd husband and I have made a priority of having sex every day. This was something I hadn’t done in my first marriage. In fact, we usually set the alarm to squeeze sex in early in the morning before the kids wake up (when we have them) or the work day starts. Like 6am early!
Scheduling sex every morning has done wonderful things for keeping our physical intimacy and connection strong for years now. Getting it in before the stress of daily life is importantly to us. We are disciplined about it like making time for our daily workouts, etc.
On occasion, we have a conflict and miss our daily session. Given the regular consistency, it is something is missed for the rest of the day.
Should we make an effort to make it up later in the day, or is it fine to miss a day even though this is our regular routine? Having been so regular about in for so long, I can tell when we missed a day. I certainly don’t want to end up like it my previous marriage when we would go weeks without physical connection.
Posted Jul 4, 2026, 6:32 PM UTC · locked