Need Advice.

NSFWQuestion

Hi guys!

I've been in the bowl for a long time now, and with my most recent SD (seeing him for about 2 months) he hadn't given me his real name. I don't mind that at all, I get it. Safety and privacy are important! He told me he's been burned in the past, and I genuinely don't mind. The thing is though, I found out his real name by a slip up. We got dinner one evening and eventually they gave us the receipt for the bill. He excused himself to use the restroom and I was just curious about the total of the dinner, it was a very nice restaurant and so I looked at the receipt to look at the total.

I'm scanning it and I see his name.. and I genuinely DO NOT care. I'm not going to be a weirdo and do anything with this information. But do you guys think that I should mention to him that I know his name? Or keep this information to myself? It just genuinely doesn't change anything.

I just feel a little bad knowing and not saying anything I guess, but then again we're just going to continue on as usual. I'm curious what my fellow SB's would do or what any of you SD's would expect in this situation.

TLDR; found out my SD's real name and wonder if I should tell him.

I PROMISE you guys this was not purposeful! I have not been pressed to find out his name in the slightest.

Posted Jul 4, 2026, 6:32 PM UTC

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