Mystery Man I Like.

So there's this guy—let's call him Liam (30), and I'm Ana (24). Yes, I like older guys. 😂

We've only been talking for a little over four weeks. We met on Umingle, and somehow we ended up talking about almost everything. I usually lose interest in long conversations pretty quickly, but with him it felt different. He's intelligent, humble, and genuinely kind.

The only thing that bothered me was when we exchanged Instagram accounts. He had no followers or following, and when he told me his full name, I couldn't find him on any social media platform at all. At first I brushed it off, but as I started developing feelings for him, it became harder to ignore.

The more we talked, the closer we became. I do get asked out by other guys from time to time, and whenever I mentioned it to him, he never directly told me not to go. Still, I could tell he didn't like the idea. I never went anyway because, by that point... I already liked him. 😂 Was it too fast? Probably. Was it a little stupid? Also probably. Anyway, he eventually confessed that he liked me too.
Now here's my dilemma. We live on opposite ends of the Philippines—he's from the north, and I'm from the south. Since I couldn't find him anywhere online, I started asking more about his family, interests, and hobbies. After learning all those details, I tried searching again... and still nothing.

What confuses me is that he seems to come from a pretty influential family. Based on what he's shared, his father's job involves handling a lot of money and requires a professional license, which usually means there should be some public records or information available. But I still can't find anything—not about him or even his family name.

So now I'm wondering... is that normal, or is this a red flag? Help guys ahahahaha