Anyone else realise that you need social proof and getting “in shape” doesn’t really help

Was fat, now in good shape (pics in profile) and it doesn’t really matter. I’m still in the exact same position as before I lost weight and gained muscle. No girlfriend, no friends, days spent playing piano or chess or doomscrolling.

I think what matters most is having a group of friends that you can go and do stuff with and then meet women organically from there. I don’t have that so I’m on dating apps. When I meet the woman you can tell they’re pretty weirded out when you say you’re basically a hermit and have no social interaction outside of work.