Let’s make a list of shit we’re done with as an autistic woman/NB

I wanna let some frustrations out ! Feel free to add your struggles to the list !

So I’m done with :

- Poeple asking if I’m mad because I’m not smiling
- Poeple forcing me to smile bc I don’t "look" happy
- Poeple telling me I’m rude bc I wanna go non verbal
- Poeple calling me stupid bc I can’t find the words to speak my mind
- Poeple asking why I don’t speak when I don’t have shit to say
- Poeple telling me that I’m rude bc I need to isolate myself during the day
- Small talking
- Poeple calling me picky bc I don’t like certain things
- Poeple telling me that’s unhealthy to be lonely when there’s my only way to regulate myself/be myself
- Poeple stopping me from stimming bc it’s a sign of stress when it’s a way to regulate myself
- Poeple calling me princess bc I like doing things a certain way
- Poeple not giving a damn about my interests while I’m deeply care about their
- Poeple constantly coming late to hangout while I’m always on time bc I’ve plan carefully my day to be on time
- Being the one in the back when walking with 2 other friends on a 2 persons sidewalk
- My friend’s group going out without me when I can’t but not going out when one of the them can’t
- Poeple telling me that I’ve said something wrong without telling why it’s wrong
- Poeple expecting me to do something when they didn’t even ask
- Poeple asking how I’m doing without wanting the real answer
- My friends telling me to wait when I want to go home when we’re out but deciding to go home when one of them wants to
- Poeple telling that I think too much
- Poeple telling me that I’m not that cold/hot
- Helping my classmates with their homework/doing the group projects by myself and being ignored when the year’s over
- Poeple giving me advices according to their lifestyle while I give advice according to poeple’s lifestyle
- Poeple getting offended when I just wanna bring up a concern
- Poeple judging my special interests
- Poeple telling me to calm down when I am super happy
- Poeple being comfortable demanding things bc I’m kind
- Poeple befriending me just to recruit me as a minion
- Poeple making fun of me for doing a meltdown
- Poeple telling I’m too "white" bc I don’t like spicy food
- Poeple calling me weird bc I don’t want kids and a relationship
- Poeple wanting me to answer a certain way to a question and not wanting my actual opinion