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26 [M4F] #Europe #Online In all honesty, I'm just interested in someone as utterly romantically clueless as I am.

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A bit direct, I guess, but if you are looking for a guy like me, why not be? I'll give you some exposition:

I'm 26, as the title states. Very much a nerd, very much an introvert. I live in West Europe. i am a software engineer for a living, so I'm always surrounded by computers one way or another. If you happen to be on the same industry: I mainly code in C++. Otherwise, for a bit of info: I develop code for devices such as automatic doors, ticket booths, among others.

Physically, I'm 190 cm (around 6'3" for the americans) and around 90kg, give or take, mostly give, I do love food, after all. Anything sour or spicy, I love. Peruvian cuisine is one of my favorites for that exact reason. Sour AND spicy, what's not to love?

Overall, I prefer indoor activities, mostly because I don't feel much motivation to do outdoors activities alone. Especially in the summer, as I prefer to go out when it's cool outside. Reading (I like going into Wikipedia rabbit holes an awful lot, especially historical ones), watching media, gaming. To be honest, gaming is one of my favorite hobbies. I enjoy deep narratives, so I'm drawn to various franchises, such as Mass Effect, Fallout, Baldur's Gate, among others. I quite enjoy RPGs, but I'm also drawn to games like Cities: Skylines and Stellaris. Other than that, I enjoy various genres, but those are the ones I spend the most time on.

Musically, I like almost all kinds of music. Yes, even country (although I prefer western). My favorite tends to be 80s rock, and I tend to prefer older music in general, however.

And well, I've never been in a relationship before. Truth to be told, it's rare for me to "click" with people, and people who I've met in the past tend to have very different outlooks on life than I do. This also means that, apart from the relationship part, I've never done some other more... intimate stuff. I'm not in a rush to do so, anyway. If anything, it takes me a bit of time to open up.

If you happen to like what I've posted, let's chat and get to know each other a bit!

Posted Jul 4, 2026, 6:38 PM UTC · locked

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