24 [M4F] #canada #britishcolumbia - Looking for my forever partner.

About Me:

Hi there! Thanks for checking out my post. For now, I'll go by Edward, I'm 24, living out in the interior of BC in Canada. I'm 6'2, a little stocky, got dirty blond hair, glasses, and partial heterochromia. I'm a chemist by training, having graduated last year with my bachelors, but a shitty economy in a tiny town means I mostly spend my days working at a butcher shop. Its quite fun though, free food is worth its weight in gold sometimes too. I do hope someday to go back to school, get my masters, or even a phd. I love learning, and I love science, honestly if money wasn't an issue I'd spend my life getting every degree I could.

Outside of career prospects, I'm a pretty easy to get along with person. I'm a bit of a stoner, and have two cats of my own. Honestly, free days spent getting a little high, and watching the cats chase butterflies are hard to beat. Recently I've been really trying to get back into reading, I want to have read all of ‘the classics' by the end of the decade. I've got a hundred books earmarked for this year, but in all honesty if I get 20 done thats a huge win. Ive already read Frankenstein, which by the way as a side tangent, such an amazing book. Unless you’ve read this, I promise you have no idea what it’s really about. Movies have dumbed down such a well written and deep introspective into humanity, identity, family, grief, etc. The list goes on and on. I also really enjoy watching movies and TV, but I have realized that I don't really care for 'cinema', if I'm watching TV, it can be mindless trash, just helps fill the silence.

There are things I do genuinely love. First and foremost is cooking. Gosh I love to cook. It feels so satisfying to make an enjoyable meal, to play with new ingredients, flavours, techniques. I actually got a nice cookbook last Christmas from my sister in law, but the first half is entirely on theory, and how flavours work. Really interesting stuff. I'm also a bit of a boardgame nut. The longer the rulebook, the more I fall in love. There's nothing like getting some people together for Catan, and having my stack of rulebooks nearby to settle arguments and disputes.

I'll also leave a clear forewarning. I have depression, BPD, and chronic ideation. I'm on meds, I'm seeing a therapist. There's up and downs, but its something I'm working really heavily on. So I understand anyone's aversion to that part of me. But I'm also cognizant enough that there is no getting 100% better, so waiting for that day to look for my other half might be far too late.

My Ideal Partner:

When I imagine my perfect partner, the first thought that comes to my head is that they enjoy dominance, but given the subreddit, I'll assume you figured that going in. I'm someone who likes gentleness. There's enough roughness in the world, and I don't really desire to add more to my own life. I know that its more nuanced than that, but at least for now, thats kinda my line. I'd love to explore any kink that interests you, discover my own tastes as well, but I'm not looking for extreme degradation, mocking, or anything in that range. I'll muse that its a soft line, theres very much a difference in my mind between 'you're a useless person', and 'you're my useless person'. There's absolutely appeal for a bit of possessiveness, and it almost transforms the sentiment for me from worrying to wonderful.

But theres far more to a partner than their style of being a domme. I want a partner who loves discovery. I need someone that isn't satisfied with the surface level answers of the world. I want to get shitfaced with you and have really deep conversations about low stake topics. If you're right for me, there's as much thrill getting handsy, as there is to losing ourselves in a wikipedia dive.

Really, those are my dealbreakers. Be someone that enjoys the soft, tender side of dominating someone, and be hungry for knowledge, whether it be how the world works, or how to scramble my brain. Age isn't a huge factor for me, if I had to make a hard choice it would be my age or older, but again, not a deal breaker. Location wise, be close, or at least have plans to see each other in person at some time. I'm hesitant to put any physical preferences of my own, but I suppose I'll muse that… I don’t know. Be healthy, you don’t need to be a health nut, but ive lost enough people that I need my person to be around at least as long as I plan to stick around. Red hair is also a plus.

My Femdom Preferences:

I'm going to be upfront here. I'm as inexperienced as one can be. Hell I don't think I've held hands with someone not in my family ever. I'm open to a lot of ideas though. I fancy gentle femdom tropes as you have probably guessed. Sweet affirmations, touch, a bit of possessiveness. Guiding my actions, either in daily tasks or simply needs you hope to have sated in the moment. Really all I want is someone to love, that will love me back. If I can worship the ground you stand on without it being too weird, all the better lol. Honestly, my biggest fantasy, is giving my partner a spa day. To work tirelessly to give them a truly tranquil day. We start with cuddles in bed, we move to the shower, where I take care of every inch of you, from washing your hair, to gentle scrubbing your face with my hands, holding you there, and likely giving you many kisses, working all the way down until you're clean and feel boneless. Then hopefully more idle cuddling around the house, making you every meal, cleaning up. I just... want to take care of someone that cares about me.

But beyond the wholesome sweet stuff, again I'm interested in trying whatever you want. Tie me, bite me, put a collar on and make me crawl. I'll try anything at least once. Although i would love it if I could taste those three sooner than later :P

Next Steps:

If you made it all the way to the end, first off, thanks for spending a bit of time learning about me. Hopefully if you're still here you're intrigued at least. You can reach through reddit chat, I'll respond within the hour at most. And i would love to hear from you. Im really bad at making the first move, but once we’re talking, I promise it will be well worth your while!