Advice
Hey ladies- quick one. My husband is looking to go to his friends stag abroad for 1-2 nights (over a weekend) - 1 hour flight away. I’ll be 27 weeks, we also have a 2 year old.
I don’t have family here and his own family coming over to help is very unlikely- maybe one of his sisters might come over for a couple of hours at most.
What are your thoughts? I feel bad because he doesn’t really do any of his hobbies anymore where I’m exhausted and he does a lot with our toddler so I can rest when I can. And well aware life will only get busier once baby no2 arrives. He also likely won’t go to the wedding (it’s in town) as it’s literally on my due date.
I know he wants to go, and I don’t want to be the fun police but realistically am I going to be exhausted / is it too far along for him to be going abroad?
Please be kind x
Posted Jul 5, 2026, 12:21 PM UTC