My daughter (F17) lost her virginity

I(M44) recently got confessed that my daughter (17) had sex with her (17M) boyfriend in my house. From a long Christian life with family values this is devastating, I feel 💔, empty and at at the same time angry with the guy, because I trust him, can't see my daughter with love and care even though she is my life. She's my only daughter that I have plans for her, dreams to achieve, goals in life and now this. How to get this sadness out of my chest this anger out of my soul., how to pretend nothing happened, and continue a normal life. How to regain the trust on her. She seemed to be OK though, just that specific day, she cry and told me that she's sorry for this behavior. I was so mad that I treat the guy calling the cops on him( but didn't) and she got upset for that move. I been trying to find a way to avoid this to happen again so I decided to remove the door of her room. For this she aren't talking to me now. Making me feel that I'm exaggerating, She's trying to convince my wife to put the door back now. That my wife (F52)we had and argument about the door and I end up telling her that is my house and I pay the mortgage and I decided what to do and she got mad about this now, my own wife. I just want to clarify that my wife isn't the biological mother, but I know she cares for my daughter sometimes I think too much. In this world that has lost its values I think there's people outhere that understand my pain. I would never wished this to happen to anyone. God bless you all!