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41 [M4F] - Aus/India - A need for a connection

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Are we all lost and find our ways here? I hope so, so here I am.

I am 41, married for 12 years. I grew up in India and been living in Sydney, Australia for the last 5 years. I have a kid and to be honest, I have lost myself in parenting. Whatever little remains goes away in being a good spouse.

People here look for all sort of things but I am only looking for some kind of a connection. I am keen to hear your every stories and your daily problems. To laugh and learn together. Navigate these blues, the ups and downs. Some emotional quotient, a place to feel secure. And if there is an organic connection, I am keen to talk dirty too.

I want this to be strictly online and not looking to change any situation ( I only want to help our situations, not change them). Am not too keen on pics sharing.

My job involves lots of writing so I can go into deep conversations, with the written word. I love poetry. Because I grew up in India, I have a deep understanding and love of Hindi music of the era gone by (if that interests you? Gulzar? RDB? Most people don't care).

Apart from this, I love to travel (and my job involves that so it is a bonus). I love gardening. I read a lot (when I can!).

Hoping to hear from you.

Posted Jul 5, 2026, 12:24 PM UTC

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