Should I double text or leave it be?
25F, have a date planned wednesday or thursday with this really cool girl (the day depends on the weather). We were chatting quite a lot the first couple of days but things have slowed down a bit. She liked my instagram story yesterday but she’s not texted me all weekend. She’s at home with her parents so idk if she’s just someone who wouldn’t text in that scenario?
Anyway, I’ve been ghosted a few times this year so obviously I’m getting a little paranoid and stressed that it’s happening again. Do I just wait for her to respond and hope she will tomorrow, or do I send her a double text? The last message we were just talking about how we lived right near each other last year, nothing crazy.
I’d probably just say something like ‘hey how was your weekend? are you still up for wednesday/thursday?’. Thoughts?
Posted Jul 5, 2026, 12:25 PM UTC