Hi, so I 24f am marrying my fiance 29m in less than a month and we are leaving town to visit fam and have a small wedding. The original plan was to elope, because our immediate family is a complete headache on both sides, and I canceled everything our family’s were planning to avoid the drama because we were over it lmao

neither of us got an engagement party or dinner, bachelor party or bachelorette, or shower, and my fiance watched me plan all three of those things for my twins wife last year, so his tolerance for girls BS is very low right now and he said that I’m justified in being a little pissed at my high school best friend that has not met him or made an effort to congratulate me at all and has not really known me since we graduated high school, but asked me to go out to dinner with her and I came home really sad and cried about it. 

I just wanted her to want to meet him and like threaten him if he ever breaks my heart like I did, and I literally never dated anyone ever so it’s a little annoying that this is how everyone reacts when I find the man of my dreams and we buy a house together and want to get married. 

Honestly typing this out, I still feel justified but here’s the messages lol. 

Am I overreacting?

Am I overreacting to my old friend’s behavior towards me getting married?